What you see is never what you get
Have you ever dreamed about the perfect someone that will be your soulmate? The perfect wedding day? The perfect life? Have you ever wonder if you will have those things? I know I did.. and I also know that the only thing I will never find is the perfect soulmate. I thought too many times that I’ve found him and I was wrong every time. I’m sure that he doesn’t exists, he is just the product of too much imagination. Some guys have his qualities, other have his personality..some of them apparently look like him, others have his voice. But none of them is “him”. They are trying too hard, they don’t know that the simplicity makes him perfect. Do you know what’s the worst thing that could happen? When you think you have met your soulmate and he turns out to be an asshole. And not just once.. So why bother thinking that someday something will change? Why trust in someone when this only brings me misery? Because there is nothing that can tell me if I made a good or a bad choice, only when it’s too late. The point is that I will never again consider that the person who is standing next to me is the best choice I’ve ever made. Because he won’t be. Why? Because, as I said before, there is no such thing as perfect soulmate. But that won’t stop me from having a perfect wedding day or living a perfect life. I can make those two real without giving a damn about all the imperfection around me. Because as long as I live my life exactly how I want to and as long as I believe in me, for me everything will turn out just fine. But I will always keep an eye on every person that tries to get close to me because I know for sure that what you see is never what you get..
yeah.. there’s no such thing as perfect guy or perfect girl. just because a coulple of guys turned out being assholes that doesn’t mean that every boy will hurt you.
if everything would be perfect, life would be very boring. it’s the imperfections that makes us who we are.
your soulmate doesn’t need to pe perfect, your soulmate must complete your imperfections or at least some of them.
maybe i consider that i deserve perfection,maybe i have way too much expectations. or maybe this world is full of assholes. all i know is that the experience made me realise that what you see outside is almost every time different from what’s inside, and not in a good way. but..who knows? maybe i’ll get lucky.
it’s better to not have expectations.. that way you’ll be surprised every time
Imi place bloguletul asta al tau
. Imi place ca scrii in engleza, imi place ca scrii frumos si… imi place imaginea din postarea asta. Tim Burton style! 
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Multumesc!!
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Ia uite cum am ajuns eu pe blogul tau asta-seara (din fericire nu scrii mai des ca mine:P), si da, imi cer scuze ca nu am aterizat mai devreme, pt ca scrii frumos, scrii din suflet:)
Insa la subiect, cred ca ce deschizi tu aici e cutia Pandorei, si ca atare, nu pot decat sa las si eu ceva sa iasa:
Eu unul cred “the one” exista, insa nu asa cum ti-l imaginezi, ci asa cum este el, iar cand il vei descoperi vei sti; pentru ca se va potrivi cu ceea ce iti lipseste…… nu cu ceea ce crezi ca iti lipseste..:) then again, this is just litt’l ol’ me… subiectul este tare vast…
Poate ca nu trebuie sa cauti, dar nici para malaiata nu va pica in gura lui natafleata!
Keep it up!:)
Danutz,iti multumesc foarte mult pentru vizita,apreciez parerea ta,dar eu am sa cred ca in continuare ca “the one” nu exista. Nici nu caut,nici nu astept sa cada din cer. Vreau doar, exact cum ai zis si tu, sa mi se potrivesca, sa ma completeze exact asa cum o piesa intregeste un puzzle. Nu stiu ce-mi rezerva viitorul, nu pot decat sa sper ca va fi exact asa cum mi-l doresc!